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How to behave during your divorce

On Behalf of | Feb 12, 2022 | Family Law |

As a Connecticut resident who is seeing your marriage come to an end, your behavior during the process can affect the outcome. However, you can manage how you behave during the divorce so that your actions do not negatively impact your future.

Civility goes a long way

When you are navigating the end of the marriage, you might want to let yourself indulge the intense feelings that the process often brings. However, acting impulsively or giving in to rage and anger will often backfire. Instead, act civilly towards your ex as you will need to negotiate with them in a variety of ways.

Be clear about your goals before negotiations begin

You should prepare yourself for the divorce settlement negotiations. Whether your divorce is amicable or not, prior preparation will ensure you are protecting your own interests. Some of the things you can do to prepare to include:

• Listing all your marital and separate assets and debts
• Gathering all the supporting documents for your assets
• Making a realistic budget for life post-divorce
• Setting financial goals for a stable, secure life after the end of the marriage

Gather a support team of family members, friends, and professionals

Having family members and friends who support you, listen to you, and do not provide negative advice is important during the divorce process. However, you might also benefit from seeing a therapist who can offer techniques on how to deal with the emotions sparked by the split. Depending on the complexity of the divorce, you might also gather a team of professionals to help you through the process, including a lawyer, an accountant, and other advisers.

Though it might be difficult, putting your feelings aside and focusing on your future might be the best decision you make during your divorce. Even if your estranged spouse attempts to provoke you into an emotional outburst, keep the focus on the life you will have when the process is over.